Thursday, November 12, 2015

Enjoying Our Adoption - In Honor of Adoption Month


What are some beautiful words to you?   In the Christian community I bet that I would hear works like: salvation; redemption; creation; and holiness. Does adoption come to mind?  For most of us, adoption may not be something we dwell on in our lives.  However, as an adopted father, adoption has become a beautiful word for me.  Beautiful not only in that God chose me to be His son but also in that Val and I chose adoption to grow a family.  Throughout our 17 years with our two awesome children many have asked us why did we adopt?  Simply stated:  Val and I adopted because God moved us to grow a family in this way. 

With November being designated as Adoption month I want to share some thoughts on God’s movement to grow a spiritual family.

One man in the Christian community reflects, “Adoption is the mainspring of Christian living… apex of Creation…goal of redemption.”  What a high view of the doctrine of adoption!  Is it warranted?  Let’s learn together as we consider Galatians 3:26-4:7.

Gal. 3:26-4:7
26 You are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus, 27 for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ.  28 There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.  29 If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.
4 What I am saying is that as long as the heir is a child, he is no different from a slave, although he owns the whole estate.  2 He is subject to guardians and trustees until the time set by his father.  3 So also, when we were children, we were in slavery under the basic principles of the world.  4 But when the time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under law,  5 to redeem those under law, that we might receive the full rights of sons.  6 Because you are sons, God sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, the Spirit who calls out, “Abba, Father.”  7 So you are no longer a slave, but a son; and since you are a son, God has made you also an heir.

Even as an adopted father, I sometime forget about the love expressed by God in adopting me into His family.  I often allow my circumstances and relationships to rob me of enjoying my sonship.

All of us who know Christ at times and to some degree fail to experience the freedom and joy of our adoption.  Often we let our circumstances, our relationships and even our expectations to rob us of the reality of the intimacy and freedom we have in the gospel.  We continue to live as slaves instead of as his precious and delighted in adopted children.  Even though we are rich in the gospel, full and forever adopted children of God, with complete access to the Father, we continue to go back again and again relating to Him only through our record, performance and moral merits.  We fail to realize our awesome inheritance.


However, Paul here in this passage wants to remind us, those who believe and trust Jesus Christ, that we can enjoy our adoption regardless of what is going on in our lives.

Dr. Robert Peterson, Adopted by God shares about a true and tragic story of a minister who rescued his son.  He and his 7 years old son were fishing from the bank of a Lake in Smyrna, TN.  His son, David, slipped on the bank and fell into the lake.  His father jumped in the water and pushed his son towards the rock and the boy climbed to safety.  But the father could not swim.  Before his son could return with 2 fishermen, his father had disappeared.  Later his body was found about 25 feet from shore in 16 feet of water.  This story pulls our emotion in opposite directions.  We are thrilled at the father’s heroism in risking his life to deliver his son from death.  But we are saddened at the awful cost of the deliverance.  Our grief grows when we understand he left a wife and 2 other children.

There is a much greater deliverance than the one just recounted.

Our adoption has come at a great price.  Gal. 4:4-5 reminds us of the Son who delivered us, and this too pulls at our emotions (saddened at the death of the Son but also overjoyed at what comes to those He rescues).

4 But when the time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under law, 5 to redeem those under law, that we might receive the full rights of sons.

  • Our need of redemption (Gal. 4:1, 2) – we were in slavery to the Law.  To redeem means “to release a slave from his or her owner by paying the slave’s full price.  Here in this verse the “slave master” is the Law.  Before our relationship with Christ, our status was one of a slave.  We were not his children.  We are “under” the law legally in that we are obligated to be righteous before God or we are lost.  But we are also “under” it spiritually in that our hearts are helplessly fixated on trying to fulfill it in order to win God’s favor.  It is a burden, impossible to satisfy.  So in a sense we belong to the law—we are under its control.

We are also slave to sin, needing to be redeemed.  Our sinful condition constituted our need for redemption.

  • The price of redemption (Gal. 4:4, 5) – Jesus in his perfect obedient life and death on the cross releases us from the bondage to the law and sin as the slave is released from the bondage to his master.  Jesus pays the full price of the law.  Jesus completely fulfills all the law’s demands on us—he fulfilled anything and everything we owe.   There is nothing left to do or pay.  Jesus freely gave himself as the ransom to pay the payment of our sin.  He died to set free those who believe on him and to make us God’s children. 

We cannot pay for our redemption.  There is nothing we can do to make us acceptable to God or to earn his favor.  No one can keep the law so as to merit God’s favor.  No one is good enough.  As a result, the curse of the law hangs over the head of every lawbreaker—you and me.  The curse of the law is ready to strike each of us what we deserve—the wrath of a holy and just God.

            We need a deliver, one who can do for us what we cannot do for ourselves.  It
cost us nothing; it cost Him everything.  He took our curse, our penalty, and our judgment that we deserved and placed it on Himself.

  • The result of redemption (Gal. 3:26-29, 4:5) – Jesus brought for us “the full rights of sons.”  Through Christ we receive “the sonship.”  A legal term that refers to a “Graeco-Roman (but not Jewish) legal process in which a childless wealthy man could take one of his servants and adopt him.  When that occurred, he ceased to be a slave and received all the financial and legal privileges within the estate and outside in the world as the son and heir.”  Though by birth and nature he is a slave without relationship with the father, he now receives the legal status of son.  What a metaphor for us.

Both our freedom from liability and rights as sons are to all who trust in Jesus Christ.  He not only legally transferred our record to Himself and His record to us, we are made part of the family.  In order to remove our legal status as sinners deserving condemnation, he gave us legal status as sons deserving great wealth and honor!” (Keller)  They give us a complete picture of what Christ has accomplished for us.  He both removed our curse we deserve and gives us the blessing of sonship he deserves.  God’s honor and reward is just as secure and guaranteed as our pardon.

For example, “Jesus’ redemption is not just like receiving a pardon and release from death row and prison.  Then we’d be free, but on our own.  Jesus has also put on us the Congressional Medal of Honor.  We are received and welcomed as heroes, as if we had accomplished extraordinary deeds.” (Keller)  We do not earn sonship; it is not a prize to be won; his fatherly acceptance of us is not based on our record.  Christ has provided it all.

This is true with our adoption of Samuel and Amanda.  They did not earn their adoption into our family.  No, we provided it all for them to be called a son and daughter of Jeff and Val Rickett.

Even the metaphor “have put on Christ” or “clothed themselves” in 3:27 shows the result of our redemption and adoption and denotes:

  • Our primary identity is in Christ – Our clothing tells people who we are.  To say that Christ is our clothing is to say that our ultimate identity is found not in any gender, social or cultural classifications, but in Christ.

  • Our close relationship with Christ.  We need clothes and they are kept closer than any other possession.  We rely on them for shelter every moment and they go almost everywhere with us.  This reminds us of our moment-by-moment dependence on and daily awareness of Christ.

  • Our imitation of Christ.  We take Jesus into every area of our life and change our life in accordance with His will and Spirit.  We are dress like Jesus, put on his qualities, virtues, and actions.

  • Our acceptability to God.  Our clothing is worn as adornment.  It covers our nakedness.  To say that Christ is our clothing is to day that in our Father’s sight we are always loved, accepted, and welcomed because of Christ’s work and redemption.

I will never forget that day.  It was a long and hard day of ministry.  I was feeling frustrated and discouraged.  It was early in my ministry experience and I was wondering what in the heck did I get myself into.  So as I arrived home that day and enter the front door, I was deeply surprised at what happen next.  I saw my 1 yr. son and I was filled with an overwhelming sense of joy.  I moved towards him, picked him up and began to express great love to him. I shared with him what a great delight he was to my heart, how I was so pleased that he was my son, and I would never stop loving him. 

Friends, enjoy your adoption for God delights to be your Father and call you his children!

Warmly,


Jeff